4 Ways To Improve Communication In Your Relationship

Communication can make or break a
relationship. If you're in a place where
your relationship is hanging by a thread,
communication can probably save it.
Communication goes beyond discussing
routine superficial topics and helps
people connect at a deep emotional level.

If you constantly feel like your partner
doesn't get what you're saying or that
you don't understand him/her, then it
probably means that you need to have a
second look at how well you're
communicating.

Why You Need to Stop Arguing and Start Listening

Many a times, discussions escalate to arguments in relationships. It is natural to want to get your point across during a
debate, but it is equally important to listen to what the other person is saying.
If both sides continue arguing with a
narrow-minded approach, it is as good as
nothing being said. The next time you're

in the middle of an argument, stop and
give sometime to listen to what they're
saying. Your partner will note the
difference and probably follow your lead.

Being Honest

Opening up can make us feel vulnerable
at times. While this vulnerability scares us
due to the possibility of getting hurt, it
can also blossom into a beautiful
relationship. Sharing your deepest feelings
and thoughts with your partner is crucial

if you're looking at building trust. Also, lying is a big no-no in a relationship. Even
harmless white lies can create trouble, so
avoid them as well. Unabashed honesty
will make your partner trust you more.

Non-Verbal Signals

Non-verbal signals are huge clues to how the person sitting across you is feeling, so pay attention to them.
If the person constantly looks away it
could mean that they are not interested
in talking to you. Folded arms indicate
that they feel defensive towards you. If
they don't make eye contact it could
mean that they're disinterested or that
they're lying or are ashamed. A louder
tone could mean that they feel strongly
about something.

Staying Focused

Talking to someone who has the attention span of a ferret can be frustrating. Don't
let your mind wander while your partner
is speaking to you. While discussing issues
is a good thing, many times arguments
can get out of control. It gets personal
and turns into a blame game. The key is to stay on track and make it a constructive conversation.