6 Signs You Are In A Toxic Relationship

1. You feel drained instead of invigorated

Think about how your relationship makes you feel. The person you’re with should have a positive impact on your mood. Love relationships should feel energizing and invigorating. If you find yourself feeling drained after interacting
with your partner, feel like avoiding spending time with him or feel like you have to walk on eggshells, that may be a warning sign he’s not right for you.

2. Your self-worth takes a dive

Healthy relationships should spur us on to be our best selves, not cause us to fade into the background. Healthy love relationships bolster
confidence and ideally give us courage to try new things and expand ourselves in other areas of life, If you’re finding that your self-confidence is fading, and you’re feeling insecure or starting to question your worth, your capability, your attractiveness or your decisions, it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship.

3. Your Patner is always negative

It’s one thing to have on off day, but if your partner is constantly complaining about every little thing and always sees the negative in situations, You Should Take a step back and ask yourself
whether this is something you want to deal with in the long term. If you think your partner may be suffering from depression and he is willing to get help, you may decide you can work though the
negative spell together.

If he/she is unwilling to get help you need to decide if you want to link yourself with his negativity for the long haul.

4. He/She is jealous of your other relationships

No one who has your best interests at heart would want you to push your loved ones away.

A healthy person will encourage you to expand your relationships with family and friends, not to shrink or eliminate them altogether. If you feel like you need to cut off important
relationships in order to keep your partner from feeling jealous or angry, that is a sign of a toxic pattern that needs to be addressed.

5. His/Her moods are unpredictable and extreme

Though a hot and cold personality may keep you on your toes, never knowing what kind of mood your partner is going to be in when he walks through the door is not a good sign. This flip-flopping can
go from loving and caring to anger and rage in an instant.

While it’s normal to have shifts in mood, dramatic and extreme shifts are signs of bigger problems.

6. He/She wants to control your money and time

A healthy partnership means the person you’re with supports your autonomy and decision-making. While he might not always agree with how you spend your time and money, he’s willing to share
concerns and preferences.

If your partner is insisting on calling the shots when it comes to your resources – money and time – that’s a big red flag that should not be ignored.